Research Shows That the Person to Whom You Are Attracted Says a lot About Yourself

Prof. TsooryRegardless of whether an individual is male or female, if he or she is attracted to men, he/she is likely to have a high level of empathy.  This is in comparison  with individuals (regardless of whether male or female) who are attracted to women, are likely to have a only a moderate of empathy.  The finding comes from a new study out of the Department of Psychology at the University of Haifa.

“People attracted to a particular gender, whether they are heterosexual or homosexual, have common social tools, and thus exhibit the same level of empathy,” said Professor Simone Shamay-Tsoory, who conducted the study.

Empathy is a key mechanism for understanding the other, helping us to feel the emotions of someone distinct from ourselves, identify with his or her trials, and be aware of the need to offer assistance. Sociologists claim that empathy plays an important role in the development of human society in that it contributes to peoples’ understanding of others and causes them to take the latter’s feelings into account.

Behavioral and brain studies show that activities related to empathy are regulated differently in men and women based on preferences, which are acquired through social interaction and which use different areas of the brain. According to Professor Shamay-Tsoori, past studies have demonstrated that women are superior in tasks involving empathy, such as non-verbal communication as well as attention to changes in tone of voice and facial expression.

In the current study, recently published in Brain Research, Professor Shamay-Tsoori along with Dr. Daniel Perry from the Sourasky Medical Center in Tel Aviv, Kobie Walder from the Department of Psychology at the University of Haifa, and Professor Talma Hendler from the Sackler Faculty of Medicine at Tel Aviv University, sought to examine the differences in empathic response between subjects who are attracted to men compared to those attracted to women.

A total of 52 subjects were divided into two groups according to their sexual orientation. While the subjects underwent fMRI empathy(Functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging) scans, they were shown different emotional situations, so that the researchers could examine how the subjects feel when they personally experience the situation or when the situation occurs to someone else.

During the empathic task, it was found that, among other things, the area of the TPJ (Temporal Parietal Junction), which is a part of the brain related to the perception of the other, was more active in subjects attracted to men compared to those attracted to women.

The study revealed that heterosexual women showed the highest level of empathy, followed by gay men, then lesbian women, and finally heterosexual men.

“The results of the research suggest that differences in empathy between people are monitored by a person’s sexual preference. Sexual attraction determines the person with whom we have a close and intimate relationship, so it is reasonable that the gender of the person to whom we are attracted will affect our ability to empathize,” concluded Professor Shamay-Tsoori.

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